Music in Rituals: the Gospel Truth
Everyone should be fairly familiar with rituals, right? They're these things you do that are similar to and/or could be, traditions. For example, say you're part of a sports team. And before every game you guys always do this handshake or you never wash your socks (and yes, some people do believe this brings good luck), that is called a ritual. A more familiar ritual you might know of, is when it's someone's birthday and you instinctively know to sing, "Happy Birthday!" which is almost always followed with cake and ice cream.
I've had multiple opportunities to attend all sorts of rituals! Birthdays, Baptism/Christenings, Weddings, Anniversaries, even Proms. But the one I find myself most drawn to, would be Funerals. I know, weird right? But in actuality, it's not.
I grew up Baptist in the South, so I've seen my fair share of funerals. Usually how it goes, is the immediate family sits in the front rows, while the rest of the family sit behind them. And on the other side there's friends. Everyone is dressed in muting dark colors (usually black, some grays, blue rarely). Everyone's mourning, and it's just a very sad occasion.
But one thing that makes this ritual more memorable....is the music. In particular Black American gospel music.
At funerals, (specifically the ones I've attended), there's always a gospel choir. They sing a total of three songs: one while the family comes in, one right before the Pastor preaches, and one while the family views the body and is leaving.

Yo! I love the central idea of your blog. I had no idea gospel was so popular at funerals, and that there are three different occasions the choir sings, and that they're all meant to bring a different mood/atmosphere. I really enjoyed the second of Whitney Houston singing, it was beautiful and brought me to a nice, peaceful place in my mind at the end of this beautiful Wednesday. I have only ever been to one funeral, my dad's and it was nothing like you've described, so I'm glad to know not every funeral is dark, quiet, extremely morbid and depressing.
ReplyDeleteI really like the idea of the gospel choir almost directing the funeral and controlling the emotions. Non-religious funerals in America tend to be depressing and morbid, while church funerals can be hopeful and even uplifting, especially with a gospel choir. Also, I really like all the songs you listed, I think they would all be great for a funeral.
ReplyDeleteI also chose to do the music rituals. I had not thought about a before game ritual like you mentioned, but now that I think about it that is totally true, and I even do that myself. I have been to a funeral myself and there was not a gospel choir, so it was interesting to read about your perspective and how it differs from mine.
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